They love to dance and sing almost more than any guys I've met from any country. I hear again from Swedish and non-Swedish girls that Swedish guys are just more confused in general. They think, like many people in the world point out to them, that their country has the best looking and best dressed girls around, and they sometimes discuss when abroad how the local population just doesn't compare, and feel relieved when they get back to Sweden. Visiting the States is always on the travel list for almost every Swede I know. When drunk, they are a bit rowdy and don't think anything of bumping into girls or pushing past them to get where they're going. They will check you out more easily than the guys I've grown up around in California, but unlike the men who do that in Latin America or somewhere, they won't say or do anything about it. At least compared to what I know growing up in California. Swedish guys are hard to read emotionally (sounds like it contradicts with the earlier point above, but now I'm talking about them more in depth), they are conflicted, and they can tend to have a hard time making the first move, and they are proud (like all Swedes, and me). Swedes may take issue with a lot of things about America, but at the core they are fascinated by the country, have grown up knowing much more about it than we in the States know about any other country.The title of this post was one such google search query. I understand the feeling of doing an internet search for something that there are probably no true answers for, but trying anyway. I protested and defended myself, saying that yes I was moving to Sweden and had dated and known some Swedes but I was not limited to only that or trying only for that. But as far as men everywhere go, they are probably all as equally confused inside, it's just that Swedish guys go ahead and act that way." I thought that was an interesting answer. A Swedish girl one time saw a message that a Swedish guy had written to a girl that said very directly "I think you are interesting, fun, pretty and I want to get to know you better." She was shocked and asked if he was really Swedish and thought that the message was actually over the top, too much. no wonder other Swedish guys would avoid saying such direct things, if many girls here would consider it to be too much. So, if I may quote a Swedish guy I know who once lived in the States... Where I lived there was plenty of good-looking ones. I've asked a Swedish girl friend before if she thought, with all her travels and dating that she's done, if she agreed with that broad stereotype. After plenty of world travel of course, which they also like. I've heard before when the conversation is not about me... There is quite a degree of homogeneity in Sweden, so sometimes it's fun for them to do or see something or date someone different. And then I will refer you to my point just before this.With that said, I do know some Swedes who date multiple girls at a time, like American guys, but they have no intention of having a girlfriend. Q: “Do you think some Swedish men can fall in love with a woman that is curvy or a few extra pouds or is this a sign of laziness with their culture? Just because Swedish people tend to be blonder, boobier, taller people of the world doesn’t mean they don’t fall in love with different people. For a coffee (fika), a drink, study date, something.If you’re curvy bit still have a wonderful attitude and personality, it shouldn’t matter. If you still like after that, then do tell him that you dig him.Q: “I met a Swede while studying/taking a trip a trip abroad. We spent several afternoons together, hanging out, going for walks. Now that I’m back home, we chat online nearly everyday. Or maybe he could be a rebound or time pass for now.
I also recommend Online Dejting (in swedish) to read dating reviews.
You know what you should figure out though, if you haven't already? You aren't just a German girl, a Spanish woman, a Swedish girl, or a California girl.
You are an individual and stereotypes may not apply.
Swedish men prefer to seriously date one girl at a time. I’m not the type to ask a guy out but from what I’m reading here, the women do the asking.” A: Yes and no.
They also are not as heavy in playing the game or having wingmen. If you like him and he’s Swedish, then you should get his number and ask him out.